ready for change?

no one changes unless they want to.

not if you beg them.

not if you shame them.

not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love.

there’s only one thing that makes someone change:

their own realisation that they need to do it.

and there’s only one time it will happen:

when they decide they’re ready.




2 Comments Add yours

  1. Zakiah says:

    Not sure about this. You are probably talking about adults. Children and young teenagers can be molded by your own way of life and they can emulate the behaviours in my opinion..

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    1. JojoBean says:

      Yes, definitely talking about adults – children are set in their ways by age 28… or at least that’s what the science indicates. So yes, they can definitely be molded before then – which is why we get some.mad characters later on. Can you imagine what Trump’s childhood was like to produce him? Or what was childhood like for rapists, murderers and paedophiles, that made them who they are today? And I’ve always wondered what childhood was like for any number of actors, philanthropists, artists, etc… a lot of whom I admire for their actions outside of work.


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